You Are Not Alone (Micheal Jackson voice)

I have this defense mechanism that I’ve used for as long as I can remember. I will have the desire to become close to someone, develop a relationship of some sort. Then my trust issues sink in and I start to doubt their sincerity. I know all is genuine on my end but the doubt I feel from their end is what makes me call it quits.

Sometimes I think I don’t need anymore people in my life. And sometimes I feel like I’m cheating myself out of an experience of meeting new people and experiencing new things. But I look at it as; I’d rather protect myself from the start, than feel like a sucker down the line.

You Can’t Help Who U Love

I had lunch with a friend today and she brought up Gay Marriage being legalized in the U.S. SheΒ talked aboutΒ being against the decision (which I took as misunderstanding on her part,)Β and sheΒ stated that thisΒ was a sign the world wasΒ going to end. Don’t get me wrong, I’mΒ not sure just how serious she was… but to sayΒ things like that,Β kidding orΒ not;Β IS NOTΒ COOL.Β You can not relate to something, you know nothing about. You can’t offer your input on anything withoutΒ experiencing it yourself. If you are heterosexual, does that mean you should be treated differentlyΒ than homosexuals, bisexuals or transgender individuals?!?!?Β If you answered yes to this question, you’re wrong. That a form of segregation, which we did away with long ago! We are all human andΒ should all be treated equally.Β If you have any questions or concerns about the LGBTQ community, I suggest youΒ become educated because there can be no progress with ignorance.Β We all deserve the right to be miserable in holy matrimony.Β And if you don’t like it, Oh Well!

You Ain’t No Fortune Teller

It is amazing how you can imagine your future and that image can disintegrate over time. When you’re high off happiness, it seems like nothing can go wrong and your plans are going to work out fine. But when you come down from that high and you realize things can and will go wrong, your future starts to look very unclear.

Cuffin Season Is OVER

So , now that it’s getting warm outside, relationships are falling apart. It never fails, this time of year your relationship status is in jeopardy of changing.

People need a cuffing partner in the Fall and Winter due to the cold conditions outside; they want to remain in the house and hugged up. But in the Spring and Summer time, people want to be free to roam and mingle without looking over their shoulders and worrying about getting caught.

If I’ve just enlightened you, you’re welcome.

iPhone Problems 😩

If I have so much reception, that spinning circle should not be on my screen for more than 60 seconds.image

The moment I start to pray I find a charger soon. Β  Β  Β  Β  Β  Β  Β  Β  Β  Β  Β  Β  Β  Β IMG_4675

My Natural Hair Journey

As you guys know from my previous post, “I love my hair, IDC IDC,” I have stopped relaxing my hair. I am finally beginning to learn how to treat and style my transitioning hair. (YouTube has been a huge help!) Yesterday, I decided to take a shot at Bantu Knots because my hair seemed untamable and here are my results this am. I must say, I’m happy and am excited to learn new ways to treat and style my natural hair.

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Damn Shame

When it comes to a romantic relationship, I’ve learned; everything my significant other was willing to do to have me, usually isn’t what they are willing to continue doing to keep me.